I said it within the first month of being with my girlfriend, when I was 16 years How long after hookup can you say i love you. The most nervous time in my life was when I asked her to marry me, the second most nervous was when I told her I loved her. Five or six months.
I think a lot of people say it too soon and it is often meaningless. My husband and I got engaged six months after we got together. In China, we tell girls to contain emotions. I think that is not good. He had already told me he loved me, but I was too scared to say it back — I said nothing!
Then one day I was drunk and I said it. But I said it again the next day when I was sober.
If I feel it, I say it. You need to be in the moment, the time is now. People are not open enough, not in London. In the Caribbean, people are very open: I waited five or six months. My now husband and I were chatting online, and I just said it.
He was really happy, but surprised.
I told him within a month at a house party, but then I ran away. We all to give each other better self-esteem. I thought it was sweet and refreshing when he told me he loved me within a month. But I would have said the same thing. If it feels right, you should do it. Order by newest oldest recommendations.
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